How to Make Your Photo Subjects Feel Comfortable (Even If They’re Not Models)
I never liked being in front of the camera, which is probably why I picked one up and planted myself behind it. I remember the first time I pointed my camera at someone who wasn't a model per se. The giggles, the stiffness, the shyness, etc., obviously didn't make for a perfect photo. I took the shot, and well, truthfully, it worked, and she looked great. All it took was to do the same thing repeatedly to try and capture the emotion from someone, and all I had to do was to shoot away. But, the more I did it, the awkwardness of the subject became apparent; it was clear they felt as awkward as I did behind the camera.
Over the years, I've learned that capturing genuine, beautiful moments with non-models isn't just about technical skill, connection, and comfort; it's more about reaching commonality with your subject so they 'lower their guard,' as it were.
If you've ever found yourself in a similar situation, these tips might help your subjects feel more at ease during a photoshoot.
When I first started my career, I often met up with a potential client or subject ahead of time at a cafe to 'get to know them.' This was an excellent way for us to get to know each other, understand what I was looking to do and what she wanted out of the shoot, discuss fees, show a mood board if I had sample ideas, etc. I always find something familiar to make the subject more at ease.
Where to shoot is another great way to ease the subject's mind, a park or a cafe. I have shot at many cafes and parks, which are always my favorite photos! Ask them if they have an extra-curricular activity they like doing; they love to run, hike, or go to the beach. These areas are also great places to get great shots!
When I pick up my camera, no matter who they are, hands and what to do with them can make photos look awkward. "Where do I put my hands?" is a common question, so most put their hands on their hips, but it doesn't always look good, so have them doing other things, playing with their hair, fiddling with jewelry or glasses/sunglasses, sipping coffee/tea. Also, you don't have to have the subject look into the camera constantly; they can look like they're pondering life and have them looking out the window. These can make the photo look more dynamic and candid, a slice of life.
I've done it before, and there are photos and videos of it, but I've struck a pose before to show them what I was asking to be done.
I don't have the best humor, according to my kids; too many dad jokes, BUT keeping the mood light by breaking out with dad jokes, or not, just keeping the mood light laughter or breaking into laughter, is another great shot!
Encouragement is an excellent way to continue to break the ice. Letting your subject know that it looks great or something similar will go a long way toward a little positive reinforcement. Also, show them some of what you've captured already; this is another way to give positive reinforcement and help them gain confidence.
Occasionally, I have had to remind myself that they're not professionals and need more patience. But I prefer working with those new to modeling and those who are unfamiliar with posing because I don't want my shots posed. Instead, I prefer a more candid shot!
Working with those that are non-models has always been a rewarding experience for me. There's something fulfilling about capturing someone who doesn't spend their days being photographed professionally. Plus, working with someone who is not a pro allows me to collaborate, have an open discussion, and have a give-and-take on ideas.
I hope this gives you some ideas to work with!
Happy shooting!
